Walking on the Leading Edge #6- Delays, Detours, Deepening / Future to Past

Aloha! Welcome back to my Edgewalker blog and evolutionary leaps of faith! Thank you for your patience and joining me again on my journey. “Life is what happens when we are busy making other plans,” said the legendary John Lennon. Many of you have been following me since I began this blog many months ago. I had it all planned how and when I would write and organize my blog. However, I continue to learn the lesson that I/we are not in control and Divine Timing has a “Mind” of it’s own!

In April 2017 a major life event and transitions that were not planned resulted in my taking a 2 month break from my blog.  I am excited to share this future/present story with you now that will take us back to the past in my upcoming blog posts.

My big news is I got married on Maui April 1, 2017 to my love and best friend Italian artist Dario Campanile. We met April 6, 2012 at our mutual friend’s beach wedding on Maui. Five years later almost to the day we got “Mauied” on the same exact beach we met, with the same friend’s present. This was not planned and a last minute decision. Even though we have been together for 5 years and engaged for 2, when and where we would marry was never clear due to our traveling and life transitions. We waited together for the CEO moment, when it would be made Clear, Easy & Obvious for our sacred marriage. Synchronistically my Mother from NY was visiting us in Maui where we were living for the Winter months. At the same time the friends whose wedding we met at were visiting Maui from their home in California. Maui brought us together and we knew we wanted a small Hawaiian ceremony with those exact people present!

Dario and I have learned to trust the signs and realize there are no accidents. We took a leap of faith and knew the time was right for us to marry. So within a few short weeks every detail necessary to have a beautiful sunset wedding on Maui was handled with ease including the availability of Lei’ohu Ryder, the Hawaiian minister to facilitate our sacred ceremony. I always carried the intention in my heart since I began this Edgewalker journey in 2007 to meet my Divine Complement & Spiritual Partner.  The emotional, spiritual, mental and physical deepening and healing that I needed over the past 10 years to attract my husband was an evolution in how I love myself, my Higher Self and my intimate partner. This leap of faith brought me to the magical moment of spiritual union that was greater than I ever imagined.  Even being locked out of my computer due to a possible hacking during my Mexico honeymoon, transitioning to my married name Campanile and travels to mainland USA , supported me in being more present and available to love and be loved, to have the right partner and BE the right partner.

In blog post #7  next week I will continue to share my journey beginning in 2007 that led me to my Maui wedding 10 years later in 2017.  Mahalo (thank you) for joining me!  My heartfelt gratitude to the Universe for the Delays, Detours, and Deepening!


*Delays, Detours and Deepening support us in our Highest Good (regardless of how things may look and feel) if we only let go, trust, surrender, allow.

*Love of God/Universe, Love of Self, Love of Another/Others (in that order!)

*You are worth it! Believe, have faith. Remember every NO creates the space for a greater YES!


  • By Steve H. from Ohio, June 9, 2017 @ 7:14 am

    Mrs. Campanile, CONGRATS to you and Dario. Randi told me that you two were married when she was you and everyone last month in Newport. We consider you and Dario very dear friends and we hope to be able to get together once again in Jan/Feb next year.

    I have read each of your entries and look forward to reading more as you publish them.

    Thank you,

    Steve H.

  • By Ricki, June 9, 2017 @ 8:12 am

    I love you my dear friend Patricia. Sooo happy for you and grateful to have you in my life – even though we haven’t seen each other in person in, whoo, is it 5 or 6 years? You are still in my heart as a dear, sweet brilliant light. Your beautiful face in one of your wedding photos of you walking with Dario, was the picture of ecstasy. My love and gratitude to you and Dario for your living your truth.

  • By Marianne Schorer, June 9, 2017 @ 9:39 am

    What wonderful news! Congratulations to you and Dario. So happy for you both. May you enjoy a beautiful long life filled with love, happiness, good health and prosperity.

  • By Paula Brown, June 9, 2017 @ 2:02 pm

    You know I adore you both! I hope to see you this summer, Dario and Patricia!

  • By Kevin Small, June 9, 2017 @ 3:18 pm

    Dear Patricia,
    Congratulations to you and Dario on your marriage! I’m so very happy to hear this great news, and you most certainly have my blessings… especially after I met Dario here in Naples during one of his shows! 🙂 He’s a great guy and again, I’m thrilled that you’ve found your match.
    All the best, and I hope to catch up again soon.
    Kevin Small
    Naples, FL.

  • By Linda Jay, June 9, 2017 @ 4:14 pm

    Beautiful description of your preparing yourself to meet your Divine Complement, Dario Campanile, and for honoring the delays, detours and deepening. That is what I’m most unsure about: how will I learn to let go, trust, surrender, and allow? P.S. In the Tags above, it says “scared” marriage, which I’m sure is “sacred” marriage — remember me as the editor for Nancy Mills’ website?

  • By Judi Neal, June 10, 2017 @ 4:49 pm

    Once again, my dear Edgewalker friend Patricia, you provide such a beautiful example of trusting the higher guidance and taking those leaps of faith that lead us to our deepest calling and greatest joy. I am so happy for you and Dario, and look forward to the continuation of your past, present, and future journeys!

  • By Raven Dodd, June 11, 2017 @ 10:16 am

    Patricia, I can relate to Delays, Detours and Deepening! Divine humor is always meaningful. I love how you and Dario have enriched each others lives and I wish you the most sublime, fulfilling, exciting, nurturing . . . There aren’t enough adjectives to do justice to your sacred marriage. Miss you. xoxo

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:34 pm

    Thank you Dear Raven. I appreciate your words, support and our friendship. Miss you too and sending love from Dario and I!

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:45 pm

    Hello Linda! Yes, I rememThank you for your comments and yes, sacred marriage it is! However scared marriage was part of what I had to work through to get to the sacred. My intention is to go deeper and explore and explain how to let go, trust, surrender, allow. Stay tuned!! Blessings, Patricia

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:46 pm

    Thank you dear Marianne. I hope this finds you well. Love and blessings to you! Patricia

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:47 pm

    Thank you so much Kevin! Wonderful to hear from you and I hope this finds you well. Wishing you all the best always. I hope to see you again in Naples preferably this year! Patricia

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:48 pm

    Thank you dear Judi, my dear colleague and Edgewalker friend. The Edgewalker path is one that takes courage, adventure, trust and exciting. It has supported me in finding my self and my love. Thank you for sharing the journey with me and all your support! Patricia

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:49 pm

    Thank you Dear Paula! I left you a voice mail on your cell. I look forward to reconnecting again soon in New York.Love, Patricia

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:50 pm

    Thank you Dear Ricki for YOUR commitment to love and your truth and honoring your path. Authentic alignment is what is called for in these times. The Universe provides when we create the space and allow! I think of you often and value our connection. I hope this finds you well. Love and blessings, Patricia PS:Miss you!

  • By Patricia Varley, June 12, 2017 @ 3:51 pm

    Thank you so much Steve! You were missed in Newport Beach. Wonderful being with Randi and I appreciate your kind words, friendship and support of Dario and I. Hello to Randi and we look forward to seeing you in 2018! All the best, Patricia

  • By Marianne, June 28, 2017 @ 10:41 am

    Dear Trish- I enjoy your blog, and am so happy for you and Dario.
    Congratulations and all my best wishes ,

  • By Patricia Varley, July 28, 2017 @ 2:19 pm

    Thank you so much Marianne. Wonderful to hear from you and I hope all is well and all are well in your world!

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